2013 Relationship Rules

A New Year means New Beginnings.

I was going to write something all profound for the New Year and then decided against it.




Here are a few 2013 Relationship Rules I am hoping to live by this year:




1. Love yourself First so you will be able to love someone else.

2. People don’t change. At least not into what we want them to change into.

3. Love him (or her) and all his bullshit…. Or let him go.

4. Learn your partner’s Love Language: Acts of Service, Words of Affirmation, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, or Physical Touch.

5. Seek to make your partner happy and you will receive happiness back.

6. Trust your partner… Or Leave.

7. Selfish acts are not of Love. Love delays gratification. Seeking to serve only self is an act of selfishness.

8. A person will always show their true colors. When you see them, You have the Choice to accept their colors or walk away.

9. Create standards and stick to them.

10. Know when to compromise and what is non-negotiable. For example, don’t compromise your morals to accommodate someone else, or you will lose yourself.

11. Be equally yoked. Mentally, spiritually, morally.

12. Seek to get your desires fulfilled from your partner and not from outside people.

13. Let your heart and mind govern your life and your choices, not your “private parts.”

14. Sex is not always an act of Love. Know the difference.

15. You determine what you get. You determine what you deserve.







May God grant you love abounding and blessings overflowing in 2013.