We Give Love.

I’m going to post this and be done with it so don’t expect me to go back and forth and debate it. These are my thoughts and my thoughts alone and you can kiss my ass if you feel any different.

I have heard too many women lately (including myself) talk about men who have an issue with women showing emotions or being connected to a man. 

Let’s be very clear. Women are emotional creatures. While there are a few here and there who are not, most of us are nurturers. We are caregivers. We connect!!! That’s what we were put on this planet to do!! To be a man’s partner/companion/rib! We lead with our hearts and when we have sex with someone we care about—whether it’s a boyfriend, a friend, a lover—we connect. Add a few good dates, a few good conversations and we connect even more. Take the condoms off and just go ahead and throw in the towel! This isn’t rocket science! This is natural. This is what’s supposed to happen.

Trust me, there are exceptions to this. If it’s established from the beginning and both think they can keep it without attachment, then awesome! But again, there are exceptions to that as well. A sexual relationship is very different from a relationship with sex involved (Resonate on that shit).

There are a few who don’t have this problem. They are the minority. They are not the majority. And if you want to keep finding those women, then pick up your yellow pages, go on to craigslist, or hit the closest corner and find yourself a prostitute and pay her to not connect with you.

Don’t ever ask a woman to leave her heart at the door unless you’re leaving your ego, penis and money there with it!

SIDENOTE: Gentlemen, please understand, when I say, "connect" it does not mean that we want to marry you. It doesn't even necessarily mean we want to be in a relationship with you. When we connect, it can mean that we saw something special in you. It means that we felt you worthy of sharing our bodies with you. It means you touched us in one way or another.

*Drops mic *