Now & Later Men vs. Boys

A male friend of mine told me last nite, “New sex is the best sex.” After debating back and forth for a while, he finally agreed with me that in reality, that is not the mindset of a man. It is not a man who believes that… It’s a boy. Real men know that the best sex is with someone you have a connection with who keeps it new and exciting for you. Someone who is willing to go over and beyond for you to satisfy you. Someone who will try anything for you to keep you wanting to come back for more.

Boys love the idea of playing the field. Sewing their royal oats. Taking on as many women as they possibly can without any care about a woman’s feelings, her heart, her soul, her well-being. Many Boys are misogynists, only looking at women as sexual objects; acting as if they want something more from them, when in reality, it’s their penis speaking for them. Boys lack thought. They lack discretion. They lack maturity to know, understand, and believe, that it’s not all about what your penis says or what big ass is walking in front of you; it’s not about who can squirt or what tricks a chick may have.

A man looks at a woman’s character. He looks at her lifestyle. He looks at her home. He looks at her for someone longer than a short-term stance, but one who he can see for the long run. A man uses thought process while a boy uses penis process. Penis process gets so excited by the fact that someone has an attraction for him and wants him that nothing else matters but to follow through on those feelings. Damn what happens after that.

Ladies, know the difference between choosing a man and a boy. Know the difference between a man who loves you for everything you are and a boy who loves you for what you have between your legs. Know the difference between a man who is proud to have you by his side and a boy who is proud to have you in his bed. Know the difference between a man who uses words to express his appreciation and love for you and a boy who uses his words to get in your panties.

“New Sex is the Best Sex” is for weak minded, penis led boys. Now, don’t get it twisted. Ladies, we know when we’re dealing with a boy or a man. We know when a dick pic is being sent on the first conversation via text, that he’s a boy. We know if the first conversation is focused on sexual activity, he is a boy. We know if he only wants to see you at nite, after hours, in the house, when you get home from hanging with your girls he’s a boy. Don’t sit around and wait for him to grow up. He won’t. Because age doesn’t matter when he’s busy trying to build his ego, add notches to his belt, and impress himself. And I say Impress himself, because he isn’t impressing any men with his bed pieces. He’s impressing boys and once again, they are irrelevant.  

Men don’t need randomness. Men need stability. Men don’t need one night stands. Men need lovers who can make them want to stay for more than one night. Men don’t need arm candy that dissolves as soon as a new piece is around. Men need a Now & Later, someone who will be around for a while.

Decide wisely who you want to deal with.

Peace